Friday, June 10, 2011

Lessons Learned: StS Challenge Day 5

If anything, this challenge has helped get my head back in the game.  I've been treading water the last month or so, and I've learned a few lessons from that.

First, since the day I started on July 14th of last year, I have never had a melt-down or anything like that.  But for the last few weeks I've been more relaxed. I haven't been counting calories to the degree of precision that has been the case throughout this journey.  I've had a craving for trail mix and peanut butter of all things, and have indulged in those a bit. So nothing horrible...both of those are pretty healthy.

What I love about this is that I've stayed in check.  I've been weighing myself everyday and I actually settled into a pretty sweet groove.  When the scale showed a .5 lb. gain, I was more careful the next day and it was gone by the next weigh in.

So essentially I was maintaining for the last few weeks and I am feeling much more confident about the future.  Confident that once I'm finished, I'll be able to maintain this for life.  I'm usually not a big fan of using the scale everyday, but I think I'm beginning to like the idea. It will help keep things in check.

And now that I'm in this challenge and back on the losing track, I'm looking forward to kicking these last few pounds.  I love the idea that the day when I will wake up and not have to think about losing weight is right around the corner. I'll be thinking about exercise and healthy eating, but not about losing weight. I thank God for His patience with me and for giving me the strength to do this.

So by way of reporting, I've been doing very well with calories and water.  Still not stellar with exercise. Walked quite a bit this week and rode the bike on Monday but didn't get it done on Wednesday.  I'll ride today, but I still haven't done anything about getting a toning plan in place.  Exercise is much more of a struggle but it'll happen. I'm confident about that.

Since it seems pretty clear to me that I won't be posting every day, I'll just log my weight loss on here, along with any observations I'm having.  I've read some blogs and made some comments here and there, but I have to admit the sheer number of folks in this challenge is pretty overwhelming. For me, the fact that someone might be reading is enough accountability to spur me on.

Weight Loss Update June 10th:

Challenge Loss:3 lbs.
Total Loss: 107 lbs.

At the end of the day, all we can do is the best we can do.  I've been reading some blogs and there's a little bit of sour grapes out there about this challenge or that challenge, about this plan or that plan, about losing fast or taking your time, etc.

I've lost 107 lbs. since July of last year so I guess you could say I've had a certain amount of success.  But I'd be the first to admit that I don't have this whole thing figured out...not for me or anyone else.

So fast or slow?  I don't really know, except to say that slow is better than not at all.  Slow is better than going gung-ho, die-hard serious and then crashing because you can't keep it up.

Slow is better if that's what it takes to learn how to keep the weight off once you're there. None of this means anything if you gain it all back, and statistics say you will if you've just been doing what it takes to lose but haven't learned how to deal with food along the way. 

So take it a day at a time and do the best you can. Do it for your health because I absolutely guarantee that you'll feel better. And do it for those you love. They'll thank you for it.

God bless you, folks!

20 comments:

  1. What a great post! I think the only thing that any of us can do that is WRONG is give up. And I think that having too much of a pass/fail mentality about weight and exercise doesn't work for most people.

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  2. I am glad you did this post, because loss no matter the rate is loss and should always be a moment to be praised, not condemned.
    I am glad I made it here, I follow so many now, but this Metamorphosis is really one of the greatest metaphors for weight loss. So many who have done so, it is like peeling out of the cocoon and revealing a new beauty in flight.

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  3. Congrats on your loss! I've lost a significant amount of weight as well at this point and I tend to agree with observation. I am giving up the daily weighing at this point though, I think it has allowed me to relax a bit more in my eating. Luck to you on this journey!

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  4. I couldn't agree more about losing fast or slow. I've always wanted the weight to come off now, and if it didn't I would just give up. I'm at a point that it's more than just weight loss. I refuse to let the scale determine my success. This is a journey of self discovery. Congratulations on losing over 100 pounds. Keep up the great work.

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  5. Wonderful post! Very encouraging. You are doing great, you've lost so much in a year, its encouraging just to see that it can be done.

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  6. It's nice to be more relaxed and at peace about this isn't it? Losing weight at a steady pace without being in a panic about things is a victory in itself. The scale used to rule my life and my emotions. No more. It is just a tool. It's not a weapon to beat myself up with. It used to be a cue to eat either way - if I had gained, I would eat because I was sad. If I had lost, I would eat because I was happy.

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  7. A pound lost is a pound lost. Plain and simple. It takes a lifetime to add that weight...be happy it's gone. You are doing amazing!!! 107 pounds!! That's wonderfully crazy!!!

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  8. That's amazing! I've been at this since October 2009 and as of yesterday am down 108.1 (it was 109.9 but unfortunately I gained at WW yesterday...crazy body!). Good luck in the challenge!! You are doing awesome :-)

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  9. Congratulations on the loss and thanks for the great post! You are doing awesome!

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  10. Excellent post...and you're right! Fast or slow, all that matters is that you're doing it.

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  11. This is an excellent post. You are right, what works for some might not work for others but something else will. You are doing terrific. Take care and have a blessed week.

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  12. Wow..I love the sort of relaxed tone you have here, and I love how you reflected on your own needs and the matters in general.

    I also like progress. Just progress. It might be slow or fast, but it's the progress IN the head and IN the lifestyle along with the progress ON the scale, all hand in hand, that are needful. Too many bloggers I saw lose in the last 4 years have had issues and regains. I want to buck the trend, and the only way to do that is to know my whys, wherefores, as well as my caloric needs and blocks to proper food perspective.

    I like that I can say NO to dangerous situations without freaking. I can say YES to events and be in control. It says something changed. But I still need to have perspective, keep learning, remember that MANY regain and the FEW have the epiphanies sand make the changes to make losses permanent. I want to be one of the few, which means this journey is about mroe than food, water, and movement. It's about self-definition, introspection, internal work...getting to a place where transformation is for real, not a crash diet sort of thing. Real change. Which is always hard and requires extensive self-searching and goals and wisdom and support.

    I wish you and all of us well on this hard journey to know ourselves and change our ways.

    Blessings upon you...

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  13. Words to keep in mind, love it! Congrats on all your success so far, I hope I do as well:-)

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  14. LOVE this post !!! I agree that taking it one day at a time and doing the best you can is the way to go ! Congrats on your weight loss, you are doing awesome !

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  15. Very nicely put! There will always be someone out there that needs to make themselves feel better and the only way they know how is to bring everyone else down. The world is full of people like that so the best thing to do is ignore it and keep on following your path.

    It's true that slow is better than nothing but I especially liked what you said about not learning how to deal with food along the way. If I haven't learned that lesson while I'm losing weight, it won't matter how fast or how slow I lose. I know folks that spend hours each day thinking about the foods they can't have while they lose weight and comment about how they can't wait until they reach their goal weight so they can eat this and that .... while they should be enjoying the healthier foods they are eating now. What will probably end up happening is that once they reach their goal weight, they'll give themselves permission to eat those "forbidden" foods, probably go overboard, end up gaining the weight all over again. It's a cycle that needs to be broken in the mind as well as the mouth. :)

    And congratulations on your weight loss! 107 pounds in under a year is fantastic! :)

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  16. Congrats on your success so far! That's awesome!!

    I've been losing and gaining weight for a long time now... Hoping this challenge finally gets me where I need to be. :)

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  17. Love this post!! It all comes down to doing what works for you!! Way to go!! You are doing great!! Don't beat yourself up over the exercise. Just keep going! You can pick it up any time. :)

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  18. Great job! Keep it up! :)

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  19. Fantastic weight loss on the first week of STS. Here's to another great week. Stay strong, michele

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  20. You sound so confident and happy! LOVE this post! Good for you and I'm glad this is working for you! Keep it up!

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